Good Neighbor or Bad Neighbor!

What is a Good Neighbor

•   A good neighbor ... The qualities I think that would be most important and what I myself would try to be ... If i wanted to be a good neighbor

1. Fair minded willing to work with my fellow neighbors in coming to decisions that benefit us all as equally and fairly as possible

2. Someone who doesn't always demand to have things to benefit themselves over others

3. Understanding would always be a great quality too .. Because that way if you really had no knowledge of how something you might like could adversely effect many other people, and eventually even myself

4. Communication  is probably the most important of all of the things a good neighbor would have to have .. but without being fair minded or understanding probably would not benefit anyone

5. I want you to know that even a great quality like communication has to be used properly or it will do far more harm than it can good

6. Intelligence has got to be used... and to have that takes education... not like from school... but in the form or listening to the input of others in discussions about things that we all think need to be done, and how to go about this without putting the burden completely on one group of people or discriminating against others that perhaps we just don't have the information that we need to make that educated (Intelligent ) decision ASK THE EXPERTS IN THE FIELD THAT YOU NEED THE INFORMATION BEFORE ENACTING SOMETHING THAT COULD CAUSE HARM TO YOUR NEIGHBORS

7. Be concerned and Care about other peoples needs and necessities to be sure that a decision you want doesn't cause others extra expense or trouble unless we are willing to reimburse them for the trouble we cause

It is important to know that attitudes can be very contagious! So it is even more important that we try to make our biggest effort in trying to be the best neighbor that we can be... and that we not jump to ruin relationships with our neighbors out of selfishly motivated things that don't benefit the majority of the people whom it effects because how would you like someone demanding to have some of your rights you enjoy removed from you just as you could be asking to have done to them

What is a bad neighbor?

•  Before I go into this very far Let me explain that unless someone really put out a huge amount of effort just to cause other people grief or loss .... and did it completely intentionally and to such a degree that it could only be called Malicious .... I would not reveal their identity or name when giving any kind of a description or example.

•   In this case It is MY Belief

•    I would think that a bad neighbor would have to be the opposite of a good neighbor... How So?

1. Instead of thinking of others needs or what they might have to do to survive... only thinking of themselves.

2. Instead of coming to the aid or those that might need our help going like a coward behind their backs to try to cause them harm

3. Instead of bringing any potential problem in front of them to try to openly arbitrate doing anonymously things to cause the neighbors grief

4. Silently complaining to those who make the rules as to get favor against your neighbors

5. Someone who puts out much more effort for the cause of hate or hatefulness than they would ever do for a loving cause

6. I would call this type of a person a sad excuse for a human being...to coin a phrase since I just had a person of this caliber do these very things in my neighborhood and others as well.. I would refer to them as a Lydiot named  after my bad neighbor who calls herself a doctor.. Lydia Long .... but aren't doctors supposed to care for people? how is it possible that someone who you might otherwise think to be a good neighbor be so rotten? I would bet she would be a coward and just deny her actions... but Dear Lydia and all of the bad neighbors just like you..... You might complain anonymously as often as you like, and your name may not get mentioned... but it will always be a part of PUBLIC RECORD

How to find out who your neighborhood Lydiot is

1. Once you have had your peace and solitude invaded by your local Law Enforcement and been informed that an anonymous neighbor has made some bogus complaint

2. Don't presume it is someone who is actually close enough for whatever you had said to be the problem is to actually effect

3. Some rare people are so petty as to complain about everything that you can possibly imagine and then some.. you might be surprised

4. Don't presume they can even see what they complain about from where they live

5. Go directly to the Police department, or Sheriffs department and pay for a copy of the police report!

6. Once you have your copy of the police report you will then be able to not only see who is doing the complaining, but how many times they complained, what they said in the complaint, whether it was by phone or in person that they complained ..etc

7. Now that you have the name of the person, address, and phone number they can be the same coward that they were when they thought you could never find out

8. Let them know that you are fixing to sue them for harassment... because you have the very proof you need to do this in these police reports ( this is only if they made repeated complaints )

9. Make these people stand responsible for the actions that they cause...ie expenses, hardships, and facing the people whom they want to have the rights violated

In the instance of the bad neighbor above

What would you suggest?

•   Here are my thoughts I welcome you to send me your own thoughts as well

1. I believe totally that if she has or had any type of a problem with anyone before making a complaint to the police she should have asked the person(s) to do something to possibly make whatever was bothering her less severe (In this particular situation she could neither see nor hear the truck that was parked 2 blocks away from her own property but neither could any of the immediate neighbors either) Unless they were to choose to either come to the property to look, or get directly in front of the drive to look  ... wouldn't this be an invasion of someone else's privacy to do this?
2. I believe that instead of making numerous calls to the police to have someone harassed on their days off maybe she should donate her time to picking up trash on the highways or in parking lots
3. If she feels that these trucks need to be parked elsewhere she needs to work on funding a safe and secure place for ALL of the trucks to be parked that has 24/7 security to make sure the property is not either taken or damaged... along with a FREE shuttle service to get drivers to their trucks at whatever time they might need to get something from the truck, since if they happened to be single they might not have a ride to do this or if married might not have an extra vehicle to leave there  when the driver need to go out on the road.
4. I believe that until such provisions are made she should have to bear the burden of doing this personally.. I'm sure such a fair minded upstanding citizen such as herself would only want to volunteer to do this because she went to such lengths to make this happen
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•   In all reality and the way this should have been handled to save everyone a lot of grief would be to have had the police escort her to the premises that she had a problem... and from there let the officer make a fair arbitration of the situation and it would have probably been done with at that point
•  Any person making a complaint against anyone else should be required to stand before the person they accuse with the protection of the police officer in order to possibly arbitrate the situation
•   If a person is not willing to go before those which they accuse ... the accusations should be considered to be totally bogus and then the party should be disallowed to make any further complaint unless they are willing to go before those they accuse
• Since they would have the knowledge that they would have to appear before the person(s) they accuse if they choose to continue to harass the police department should then after being warned  if they continue to do so be fined for their actions and for distracting the police from taking care of the situations that actually warrant the time they spend
• This will actually be a petition filed in the future